Lunch update

I just had a nice lunch with Brian. His hospital-issued food was roast beef, mashed potatoes and peas and a slice of chocolate cake. He still has a good appetite and ate most of it. The nurse dropped by and said that his blood sugar level was high (300+ when it’s supposed to be around 90 something) and that was because of the Decadron. Decadron is an anti-nausea medicine and a steroid so that will make his blood sugar go up. They gave him a shot of insulin and they’ll check his blood three times a day. Once he stops the Decadron (when chemo is over), his blood sugar will go back to normal. He still feels good although pretty worn out.

We finally got to meet again with the Stem Cell Transplant coordinator. She gave us a big calendar with what will be happening over the next month or so. Yikes. All of the definite dates will depend on his blood counts at any given time, but in general it looks like he’ll get the current chemo until Monday night (4/3) and then he’ll start getting 2 shots of Neupogen a day starting on 4/5 for about 6 days. If his insurance allows it, I may be able to give him those shots at home. He’ll have to get blood work done on 4/6 to see if he’ll need a blood or platelet transfusion. At that point after chemo his blood counts will have bottomed out and there is a good chance he’ll need a transfusion. Depending on his counts, he may have to get blood work done over the weekend as well.

On 4/6 he’ll also go to the apheresis lab and have them check his veins to see if they’re accessible for the stem cell harvest or if they’ll have to put another catheter into his chest. Regardless of whether he needs a catheter or not, he’ll probably start collecting his stem cells on 4/11. This can take anywhere from 1 to 6 days and each day is several hours hooked up to the machine.

Once they’ve collected enough stem cells, they’ll do another PET scan. This is to see if this chemo that he’s doing right now is killing the cancer. If they’re not happy with the results, he may have to do another week of chemo just like he’s doing now. If the tumor has shrunk or disappeared, he’s ready for the high dose chemo called “BEAM”. This chemo will take about 6 days and will be a combination of being in the clinic and at home. I think she said if he’s home, a visiting nurse will administer the chemo to him. I’m not sure how this will work yet, but home is good.

The beginning of the high dose chemo is called “day -6” because it is 6 days before the day his stem cells are given back to him. The day he gets the stem cells back is called “day 0” and each day after that is “day +1, day +2, etc”. Oncologists are clever, huh?

Starting on Day +2, he’ll have to be close to the hospital in case he gets a fever or something. Since he’ll basically have no immune system, it’s not good if he gets a fever and will have to get IV antibiotics immediately and be admitted into the hospital. To make this easy on us, they will put us up in the Marriott Long Wharf which is about 5 minutes from the hospital. There is a foundation who pays for the hotel for us. Cool.

This part of the procedure may take as long as 12 days. This is when his blood counts should start to recover and he will no longer need to be so close to the hospital.

We don’t know and they don’t know how much he’ll be able to work throughout this whole thing or if he’ll be asleep for most of it or what. That part we just have to play by ear and I can’t stand uncertainty.

Ugh.

More later after my evening visit.

Barb is a GENIUS!

So I spent a few hours with Brian yesterday getting him settled into the hospital for his week-long inpatient chemo treatment. He’s got a private room and the nurses are great and everything seems really cool — except the TV. It’s got one of those horrible remote controls attached to the bed that only has one button for the TV – channel up. You’re out of luck of you want to go back just one channel. We spent some time being annoyed by it.

Then as I was driving home last night, I wondered if a universal remote control would work on that TV like it would a regular TV at home. I pulled into Wal-Mart around 9:30pm and got a $7.00 universal remote. This morning when I visited Brian we tried it and it worked like a charm!!!! What a wonderful thing! It’s amazing how the little things can really make a big difference. Now Brian can watch ESPN and get hockey news and switch back to Comedy Central when it’s time for the Daily Show!

It should make a HUGE impact on his health. 🙂

Barb’s in charge now…

So Brian is in the hospital now and I’m across the street at my office. It’s great that I work so close to the hospital so I don’t have to take too much time off from work and can still visit him and keep the doctors on their toes.

He checked in at noon and by 3:00pm they still hadn’t hooked him up for chemo yet. I started getting sleepy just watching TV waiting for the transplant coordinator to show up so I came back to the office.

I’m sure I’ll have more to tell y’all soon…

Barb’s in charge now…

So Brian is in the hospital now and I’m across the street at my office. It’s great that I work so close to the hospital so I don’t have to take too much time off from work and can still visit him and keep the doctors on their toes.

He checked in at noon and by 3:00pm they still hadn’t hooked him up for chemo yet. I started getting sleepy just watching TV waiting for the transplant coordinator to show up so I came back to the office.

I’m sure I’ll have more to tell y’all soon…

Barb’s in charge now…

So Brian is in the hospital now and I’m across the street at my office. It’s great that I work so close to the hospital so I don’t have to take too much time off from work and can still visit him and keep the doctors on their toes.

He checked in at noon and by 3:00pm they still hadn’t hooked him up for chemo yet. I started getting sleepy just watching TV waiting for the transplant coordinator to show up so I came back to the office.

I’m sure I’ll have more to tell y’all soon…

Leaving for the Hospital

Well, it’s that time – I’m leaving work to go get checked in to the hospital. Don’t worry though, I’ll have a special guest blogger keep you all up to date – Barb!

Don’t miss me too much…

Lace ‘Em Up, One More Time

Well, last night I didn’t get home quite as early as I wanted. It was getting dark pretty quickly, so I grabbed a bag full of pucks and went out back to shoot some around. My wrist shots were pretty snappy and surprisingly accurate. My slap shots, however were wild to the point of dangerous. Anything within about a 270 degree arc of me was fair game. I only tried about ten slappers all told. We have new garage doors and while I was shooting with my back to them, you read how wild my slap shots were.

I got in about 40 or so wristers before I had to call it a night on account of darkness. Black pucks on black asphalt are really hard to see in the dark.

I was feeling pretty good, but this morning my back was feeling the workout. Especially after I sat at my desk for a bit and then stood up to walk anywhere. Holy crapoley. Regardless, I made a point of getting out the door right on time tonight. I made it home with enough time to get on my gear and actually do some skating. That’s what I’ve been hoping for all week. I’ve had work stuff taking up my weekend hours and I was starting to think I wasn’t going to get to skate before I went in to the hospital.

Luckily, I got to have one more skate. Who knows how long it’ll be before I get another. I’m getting admitted into the hospital on Thursday and will be there through Monday. Then I’ll probably be too tired to get out of bed for a few days. Plus, I’ll have to be getting my blood checked every couple of days. The comes the stem cell harvest. Then comes the high dose chemo. Then comes the hotel room confinement. Then comes the re-strengthening.

Then comes the hockey season.

Oh Yeah – I Made It

Almost forgot to mention that I made it through last night – the house didn’t kill me after all. I think it’s just biding its time. I woke up around 8:30 this morning ’cause I could feel a presence in the room. It was Barb. I guess her Spidey-sense must’ve been going off last night, so she came home early. Yay!

Imagination… is Funny

Okay, so my imagination works a little too well at times. Because of this, I’ve often been hosed when it comes to being alone in the dark. My ears hear a noise and my brain starts going crazy, thinking of all of the horrid mundane and supernatural things that could have caused it. This old house (our house, not the TV show) doesn’t help very much.

Barb is in Boston tonight. I’m here alone in Hartford. I’ve been up a little too long, so my mind and ears are having a blast. Ever see the Simpsons where Marge left Homer alone with the kids and when she got home, there was a huge hole in the front door and Homer and the kids were hiding behind the couch, scared out of their minds?

Welcome to my world.

Now, I was preparing for things to go a little crazy tonight, just because I learn from the past. There’s one thing I didn’t count on. You see, there’s one room in the house I’ve never liked. I’ve just gotten a bad vibe every time I’ve gone in there. I affectionately call it The Room of Evil. If I’m alone, I stay out of there and keep the door closed. If I have to go in the room, I go as fast as I possibly can.

Is it possible for a second floor room to be built over an indian burial ground?

So tonight, just a mere few minutes ago, I decide it’s time to turn in. Flashlight? Check. Hockey stick? Check. Backup hockey stick? Check. I’m settling under the warm covers, ready to be lulled to sleep by the hum from all of the lights on the second floor burning brightly, when all of a sudden…

CRASH!!

Actually, much louder than that, but I’m too freaked out right now to mess with my CSS.

I grab a stick, find my glasses, put on my slippers and investigate. A picture just up and decided to fall off the wall. Makes perfect sense. And where was the picture? Outside The Room of Evil.

Bloody Hell.

Just know that if I happen to not make it through the night, it wasn’t the cancer that killed me. It was the house.